Moosaa | -- 06-08-2008 @ 4:35 AM | ||||
In the Name of Allaah, the Most Merciful...
The hadeeth you mentioned from Ka'b ibn 'Ujrah's narration does indeed mention "thulm" (opression), but it says, "if she oppresses or is oppressed..." This wording however is not authentic. In its chain is As-Saree ibn Ismaa'eel, who was extremely weak and thus abandoned. This is what al-Haythamee said about the chain in Majma' az-Zawaa'id (4/312) after tracing it to Tabaraanee's "al-Mu'jam al-Kabeer" and "al-Mu'jam al-Awsat". It is found in al-Mu'jam al-Kabeer (19/140) - for the sake of reference. It is also reported in other sources from the narration of Ibn 'Abbaas, Anas, and perhaps others, with different wordings. What I remember from this hadeeth is the mention of her husband being angry with her, and Allaah knows best. Oppression is forbidden between people in all forms, as Allaah has said, "I have forbidden Myself from oppression and made it haraam between you, so do not oppress one another..." So it is absolutely forbidden for a man to oppress his wife in any way. As for "tolerating oppression", if any Muslim was able to repel oppression with kindness in a way that leads to good, then this is desired. And we help our brothers in Islaam (wives help their husbands) whether they are oppressed or oppressive. When they are oppressive, we help them by preventing them from their oppression, as in the hadeeth in al-Bukhaaree (2444). Moosaa ibn John Richardson ******************** ýýýýýý ýýýýý ýýýýýý ýýýý ýý ýý ýýý ýýý ýýý ýýýýýýý ý
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UmmAbdulRahman | -- 12-09-2008 @ 2:32 PM | ||||
Assalamu'Alaikom What can a woman do if she desires to wear niqab but her husband prevents her from doing so, thus oppressing her?
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Tawheed | -- 18-04-2009 @ 4:45 AM | ||||
Bissmillah wa salaato wa salaam 3la rasolillah wa ba3ad I found a fatwa regarding your question with Shaykh Zayd bin Madkhaali hafidahollaho ta 3la ýýýýý ýýýý ýýý ýýýýý ýýýýý ýýýýýý ýýýýýý ýý ýýý ýýýý ýýý ýýý ýýýýýýý ýýý ýýý ýýýý ýýý ýýýýýýý ýýýý ýýýý ýýýý http://z-salafi.com/v2/zsalafi.php?s_menu=23&idFatwa=2272
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capitaine2 | -- 18-04-2009 @ 7:04 PM | ||||
As salamou alaykoum wa rahmatoullahi wa barakatouhou I do not understand how a man can tell to his wife not wear nikab if she wants. But sister wear niqab is not wajib so , have sabr and pray Allah makes it easy for you and help ur husban opening his eyes.Have a good day. as salamou alaykoum as salamou alaykoum wa rahmatoullahi wa barakatouhou,sharing my ideas with mislim
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