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07-11-2009 @ 6:39 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Abu Bakr ibn Hudaifah (Belgium)
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Assalamualaikum brothers. Pls give me some advice about arguing with the people of innovations. I frequently get into arguments with my dad and I get really angry when he criticizes the salafee scholars.

07-11-2009 @ 8:51 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Abu abdir Razzaaq Amjad ibn Ayub (United Kingdom)
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Bismillah Wal Hamdulillaah was Salaatu was Salaam ala nabiyinna Muhammad [sallAllahu alaihi was Sallam] wa la aalihi was sahbihi wa man wala

amma ba'd

AsSalaamu alaikam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu

Below is a link to comments by Shaykh Saalih al Uthaymeen [rahimahullah] with regards to honouring one's parents, bi'ithnillah it will be of help.

May Allah subhanahu wa t'ala guide myself, my parents, yourself and your parents to the Path of the believers.


Was Salaamu alaikam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu

Abdullah b.Umar May Allah be pleased with them both said:
'Every bidah(religious innovation) is misguidance, even if people think it is good.'
Al-Lalikaii in Sharh Usıl Iıtiqıd Ahl Al-Sunnah wa Al-Jama'ah Vol 1. P134, no.111

07-13-2009 @ 1:34 AM    Notify Admin about this post
Abu Lubaynah Abdul Ghanee ibn Michael Goodchild Al-Guyaanee (Birmingham, UK)
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Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh

I attempted to send you a private message but you have disable them.

I am NOT a student of knowledge... in fact far from it.  But I would advise you NOT to raise your voice towards your parents!   I believe you should express gentleness and kindness as arguementation may lead to them saying that this (arguementation) is that of the Manhajus-Salafiyyah.

Whilst going through the book Usoolus-Sunnah a brother mentioned from Shaykh Ubayd al-Jaabaree who said, "3 things NEEDS to be established before you go to debate with ahlul-bid'a:

1 That you are strong in knowledge
2 That you should be well established of the bid'a they are upon
3 That you should have respect and authority towards them.

SubhaanAllaah I have heard of people going to debate with ahlul-bid'a and being overcomed by them and the conclusion being that they become one of them.  Then they aid them in attacking the People of Sunnah.  May Allaah protect you, your family and us all from this!

This link may NOT totally apply to your parents but to others in general:

May Allaah grant you success!

Rabbanaa aatinna fe dunya hasanaatan wa fe aakhiratee hasanaatan wa qiynaa athaaban narr

07-14-2009 @ 12:00 PM    Notify Admin about this post
Abu Bakr ibn Hudaifah (Belgium)
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AsSalaamu alaikam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu

Thank you very much for the useful advice brothers. Will adhere to the advices given here Inshallah. Jazakallah Khair

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