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Topic: Shaykh Abdul Azeez al-Bura'ee writting a Fatawa Book
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umm_abdir_Rahman
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Umm Abdir Rahman at-Turki Burcu bint Ali Kilinc ibn Mehmet
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Bismilahir Rahmanir Rahim As-salaamu aleykum wa rahmetuhAllaahi wa barakaatuh. Shaykh Abdul Azeez al-Bura'ee in Yemen, who is a student of Shaykh Muqbil will be writing a fatawa book on the circumstances in America. There is a list being done that will be sent to the shaykh inshaa Allaah. Abu Muhammad al-Maghribee was also contacted and is helping in the project. Inshaa Allaah there is going to be an effort to have Shaykh Yahya al Hajoori write an introduction or one of the other major scholars. Also if the shaykh (abdul azeez al bura'ee) cannot do the book, the questions and title headings will be sent to the permanent committee. For all those who are interested in taking part, this is a team effort. Please send all of your questions, or subjects that you think are an issue in America that needs to be cleared up. Some examples are: (1) I am a Muslim whose whole family is non Muslim. What am I to do? (2) Are food stamps permissible? (3) I have faces of tattoos from jahaliyyah. Is it permissible for me to ink over them to cover the faces? (4) Issues with Islamic banking. (5) Who are the scholars and who truly deserves to be called a shaykh? (6) Etiquettes in asking scholars questions. Please post in this thread the different topics or questions that you feel are necessary to be discussed in the book. Thank you.
- Umm Abdir Rahman at-Turkiyah Subhaanak Allaahumma wa bihamdik. Ash-hadu an laa ilaaha illa ant, astaghfirooka wa atoobu ilayk.
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zaahir.abd
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Zaahir bin Hernandez
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as salaamu 'alaikum May Allaah increase those involved in this project with good in this life and the next. Aameen. 1. Is it permissible for a muslimah who is on welfare to keep her husband's income secret from the welfare department, for fear that she would no longer be eligible for welfare? 2. What is your advice to a brother who has his family living in a neighborhood that is filled with crime and drugs?
السلام عليكم ورحمةالله ابوعبدالرحمن زاهر سبحانك اللهم وبحمدك أشهد أن لا إله إلا أنت أستغفرك وأتوب إليك
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sajid_chauhan_81
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unspecified ساجد
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Wa alaykum as salaam wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh, 7. Is Currency trading allowed? 8. Details about Islaamic Insurance. What are the guidelines for Islaamic Insurance and how different is it from Commercial Insurance? 9. Details about purchasing and selling goods and services on installments. Particularly buying a house without installments is very difficult because of the high cost. Shaykh Albaanee forbade installments(http://www.al-ibaanah.com/articles.php?ArtID=59) but other Scholars like Shaykh Abdul Aziz Aal-Shaykh allow purchasing and selling goods on installments. 10. Is there something called Islaamic mortgage? What are the conditions for that? Can details and principles be given regarding those?
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mustafaG.
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Abu Ismael mustafa bin george
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This is a wonderful effort that should be supported by us all. A month ago, upon visiting Sheikh Abdullah al Ghudayan (may Allah grant him good health) in his office in Riyadh, after asking a question the Sheikh commented: It would be good if you collect all of the questions and answers you receive by the scholars into one note book, perchance you will need these in the future. I informed him that I had already begun this. May Allah give us all tawfeeq to act upon what we know, ameen. asalam u alaikum
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sajid_chauhan_81
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unspecified ساجد
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Wa alaykum as salaam, Just a suggestion(in case you are not already implementing it) to akh Mustafa and others that if you maintain separate notebooks for questions pertaining to aqeedah, fiqh, manhaj, marriage,etc. that will be better instead of maintaining just one notebook. Or u can have separate sections in that notebook. May Allaah reward all those responsible for this effort. Aameen.
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mustafaG.
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Abu Ismael mustafa bin george
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Asalam u alaikum As for the question placed above by the brother, I asked Sh. Abdullah al Ghudayan a question similar to this last month, the Sheikh responded that it is not permissible for the female to conceal her husbands salary in order to receive funds from the gov't. The sheikh said that this is a form of deception and therefore not allowed. BarakAllah feekum
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UmmRashidah
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Umm Abdul Rahman unspecified
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Assalamu'Alaikom Wa Rahmatullah Questions: Advice for sisters who are upon the salafi Manhaj but their husbands do not follow the Salaffya although they perform the 5 salat . Can a sister whose husband doesn't let her to wear niqab or proper full khimar disobey him? What about if her husband is threatening her? Ruling regarding spirit,cider,wine,malt etc vinegars. Ruling regarding perfurms,toothpaste,creams containing cetyl alcohol. Ruling of dying woman's hair with other products other than henna just to please husband.Do modern (bleachy) dying products create layers which prevent the water to fully penetrate the hair thus affecting the vadility of the ablution? Ruling of using make up just to please husband. (I have been told that this is considered imitating the kuffar, but what if it is only for pleasing the husband?)
May Allah(SWA) guide all of us until the last moment of our lives Insha'Allah
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unspecified ساجد
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Here are another set of questions from a brother:- 1. I was adopted by my grandparents and never had a relationship with my mom. My question is do I have to keep the ties of the womb with her still or not as I do not want to anger Allah. 2. What should be done if you live in a community where the people at the masjid commit numerous bidahs and it is the only masjid in the location do you continue to attend this masjid or is it okay to pray at your home and not mix with the innovators? 3. What should be done when men and women freely mix in Allahs house and talk? 4. Can anyone perform a nikah (marriage) Islamic marriage ceremony? Can it be anyone who is not a scholar nor knowledgeable of Islamic rulings? If a marriage is performed by such a person is the marriage valid? 5. Can women who are aged 45 and older discard their hijab because of old age and they feel that they are not attractive to men? Yet the still wear makeup? 6. I live in a small town that is made up of mostly college students who give the khutbah because there is no Imam. What is the recommendation for a khateeb? 7. If a college does not have a Muslim Student Association (MSA) what are the recommendations for starting one? Is it permissible for women to be the President and Vice President and run the organization? Is it permissible or allowable for students to join such an association when there is free mixing of men and women? 8. What is the ruling on kuffar coming to a walimah? 9. If non-Muslims enter the masjid should the women be covered? 10. If a woman prays behind a barrier that she cannot see the Imam is her prayer still accepted or should she pray again? 11. What is the ruling about discussing none Islamic topics such as (politics, worldly matters) in the masjid? 12. What is the ruling of women praying behind men in the same prayer room based on the Quran and Sunnah. 13. Is it perismmible for the Muslim children to play with a Muslim child who has a bad character? 14. Is it permissible for a 10-year-old boy to lead sisters in prayer? If so what are the conditions to be met? 15. When women attend walimah parties it is permissible for them to play music, belly dance and do other things like kuffar women do at their parties? 16. Are parties permissible in Islam? Gatherings besides the Islamic celebrations. The two Eids, Ramadan and Eids on Fridays. 17. Is it permissible for women to drive away without a murham? How far can a woman drive without her marhram for employment purposes? 18. What should a Muslim do if they know a Muslim brother who has daughters and his daughters are dating and the father does not know, is it the brothers and sisters responsibility to tell the father or not? Should the sisters talk to the girls and give them time to quit dating or tell their father? 19. What should one do when Tableegh Jamaat comes to their community and the individual is not very knowledgeable is it permissible for the man to sit with these brothers in their circles of learning and going out giving dawah or not? Can you also explain their aqeedah?
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Abu Shereen Rasheed bin Fred Abdullah
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Insha Allah questions are still being collected. 1.) What are our obligations as regards to hijrah, bearing in mind that Islaamic countries are not readily opening their borders for every Muslim and more than likely the situation for the expatriates will be a difficult one (not knowing the language, no job, no home, no family, etc.) 2.) What is the advice to Muslim men that find employment but they are not able to attend every Jumu'ah? 3.) Is one allowed to have trousers below the ankle if it is part of a uniform (e.g. a suit for being around hazardous material, or other than that)? 4.) What is the ruling on standing for the pledge of allegiance or the national anthem? What to do in situations where it is going to cause fitnah such as people cursing you or ready to fight you for this? 5.) Is it permissible for a salafee of very little knowledge to hold regular halaqas when there are no other knowledgeable salafees in the area? 6.) What is the ruling on the Muslim that lives in America, agrees with its laws, and considers it better than Muslim countries? 7.) Is it ok to give money to a Muslim organization for your udhiya, fitr, or aqeeqah in order that Muslims in other countries receive the udhiya or fitr; knowing that you won't have Muslims to distribute the food to in this country? 8.) Is it permissible to purchase an item on installments for 0% finance charges though there is a time limit (e.g. 0% for 36 months). 9.) Is it permissible to shave one's beard for a job in which they deem a beard a safety hazard (e.g. with welding)? Barakallahu feekum. Rasheed Abdullah
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UmAsiya
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UmAsiyaTurk Al-Kyrgyzstan Saaliha bint Isma'il
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assalaamu'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu.. Hayyakumu Allah. There are some questions which were able to be gathered of some brothers and sisters ; : 1.- In some of the Lectures ,vending is made permissible for us Muslims, do to the high fees starting from 25$ up to 150$ and more for the day.Which excludes some of the vendors due to their poverty, what is your advice ...?,may Allah enlighten you . 2.- Can a Muslim ask for a percentage( 3% ) from the amount the vendor gained from his vending whom he permit to sell on his property instead of a vending fee..? 3.- Some of the Muslims in the west have none-muslim relatives, and some of them turn the Muslim families against each other ,example ;" The none Muslim mother doesn't like Islam and makes negative statements, after her statements , some time later she acts nice on the phone and some time later on she might visit in short ,tight dresses ,where all of her aura is exposed and the small Muslim children look at her in their own Muslim house, it is been also reported that when she meets her son who is a Muslim, as a greeting she kisses him on his lips in front of his Family, may you please advice ? 4.-I am a male muslim and my sister is a none-muslim, she open displays her dislike towards my religion, she makes mockery and twists words of 'Isa ibnu Maryam 'alayhisalaam, when she visits me in my house as I am married and have children, she tries secretly to tell my children about my life in Jahiliyyah and sings and dances in front of them when she is asked about it and advised she plots something else , she calls me on the day I was born and calls it ' happy bornday instead of birthday 'as I tried to stop her previous as she tried calling my phone on their celebration days.She made alot trouble between me & my family wife and children in regards to our Religion, please advice.. 5.- I am a married Muslim sister,alh hamdulillaah Allaah has granted us from this marriage 3 children.I am not happy, as a try to serve my husband as much as I can till exhaustion takes over me .I assist him as much as I can and as well try to encourage him. 1of the problem is ,that he is not appreciative , I can read this from his face. another problem that he is not steady learning his Deen, due of the lack of this much fitnah arrives in our home which effects our children and me. Another problem is that his most friends are insincere companions in regards to their Deen . My husband likes to be with his friends, and every few minutes he gets a phone call .Many times he takes it upon him to be more responsible with them then with his family(being attentive,spending time and comforting them.).I try to bring this to his attention , as sometimes I get very emotional .As he is a convert(revert) from America, 1 of his statements are, that he doesn't know about women too much. Another problem due to not sticking to his religion that our children are effected from this, and when I try to present Islaam to them most of the time they disrespect me .I am frustrated as he doesn't see , that I wish to help him as to increase in his Deen ,rather he looks down upon me in statements&actions sometimes in front of our children...What is your advice ? 6.- Alhamdu lilAllah I am a Muslim brother who is married for a long time.I have ups and downs with my marriage in educating my wife and our children and upbringing them . I am very lax in seeking knowledge and feel weak . Many times I spend more time with something where is no reward nor punishment in regards. But I feel not increasing in my Religion ,rather I usually end up in conflicts with my wife,as she is learning more then me in her Religion. I think that I mostly loose focus and always start something new in my Life which I bring into my Religion. What shall I do ?? 7.- I am married Muslimah I have passed 15 years of marriage ,and Allah has blessed me if He wills with many things. In regards of Family planning I almost do everything in the house and around due to some illness I cannot concentrate when I get extreme headaches. But still as I worry try the best to keep up with the house. My husband doesn't care to much in the house, whatever is broke or needs to be replaced in the house.Do to poverty I hate to blame this on my husband, even though some assistance could be asked from the brothers in the community, which my husband doesn't want to . I leave this issue , but our kids and me are struggling from time to time, and many issues in our home is based on health hazards .When I try to confront my husband with this he gets annoid with me .But as being a wife and mother I wish to make it comfortable as possible in our home. What is your advice? 8.- I am a Muslim male who recovered from an accident passed years ago. I appreciate my wife being with me all the time and she looked after me, her support cannot measure anything . I fear now that I have putted to much burden on her ,when brothers visited me .I see she gets upset with me now for every bit , and I fear that this was my mistake , I know she is very generous in giving and sharing and she never says no to give. My question is , did I overburden her and cause this effect in her harshness towards me and did I take advantage of the good she has ,how can I bring her close to my heart again ? 9.- I am a Muslim brother who is married, I am not steady in my Religion in learning and I have bad ways from the west . I have had a medical test some years ago and it showed that I have STD Chlamydia . I got to much on my mind and blame this on my wife ,that she does not comfort me as much,but I know I am rude towards her . As due to our poverty and due to my sickness and feeling myself weak as a man, would marrying a 2nd wife be the solution for me and would this be allowed in my case or shall I divorce my wife to marry another ? 10.- I have disobedient children and a husband who doesn't take admonishments ,how can I save my family from this society? 11.- I am a Muslim brother and want to marry a second wife , because I see that my companions have two wives and I think I might be able to do this as well , I don't have the financial means this I know ,but maybe Allah will increase me in this , shall I marry? 12.- I want to marry a second wife but I fear ,if I do I would cause my wife to decrease in her religion. Shall I just marry and don't care about her or if I leave this thought and be more attentive in rectifying our marriage ?
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Abu Yoosef Abdullah bin Adam
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AsalamuAlaikum Wa Rahmatullaah, May Allaah Reward everyone involved in this effort and make it beneficial to the muslims. 1. A brother was born after his parents committed Fornication, and they were not muslim at the time. His father is now muslim. What is his relationship to this man from an islamic point of view and who from amongst the females on his fathers side is he allowed to hug and greet? 2. If a non-muslim relative dies, Could we (Muslims) attend there funerals? 3. What is the ruling on giving greetings to Non-muslims. Greetings such as "Have A Nice Day" , "Good Morning" , "Take Care", and the like. Would these types of greetings be considered as making Dua for them? 4. What is the ruling on wearing NIKE shoes? a company that takes its name from what is called, in ancient greek culture, "the greek goddess of victory". This has become a popular, quality shoe, and is worn by many of the muslims in the west. Would it be permissible to buy, and wear these shoes, considering the origin of its name? 5. What is your advice to young muslims who have accepted islam, and live in a large household of non-muslims who on a regular basis, intermingle between sexes, drink alcohol, have party's and the like? 6. What books should the new muslim begin reading to know about Islam. 7. Many times we see people rushing threw there Salat, and sometimes we see them not fulfilling certain obligations, and pillars of salat. Is the person who rushes threw his prayer, or doesn't completely fulfill some of its pillars, the same as one who leaves off salat all together? 8. Is raising the hands, and supplicating to Allah, between the Adhan and Iqamah from the Sunnah, or is it something recommended? 9. If a muslim is walking outside, and a dog walks pass him and rubs on his clothes, could he pray in those clothes, or must he wash them first?
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bintIsmael
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umm Abdullaah bint Ismael Ali
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Bismillahir Rahmaanir Rahiim assalaamu'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu The Questions are : 1~ I am a revert brother from the US, Al -Hamdulillah Allah guided me upon salafiyyah, I still have trades from pre islamic ignorance may Allah guide me . One problem I have is, due to my nervousness ((which has been not established from a Muslim Doctor ,but I consider myself nervous )) , I constantly pick /rip off my skin on my fingers till they bleed ((also I chew on the ripped off skin )). someone brought it to my attention that this might be wailing , is this correct ? And what would be the solution for this problem ? 2~ as-salaamu 'alaikum wa baraka feekum oh Shaikh ! I want to focus on my Religion .But when I start studying ,I loose interest, may times I end up confused .It seems though, I cannot learn anymore , I am in the age of 50 years now ( I am a revert from America ), how can I increase ? WA Jazaak Allaahu Khair! 3~ Assalaamu'alaikum, dear Sheikh may this reaches you in Khair, I have a marriage problem , where I think am the cause of this. My wife supports me much as she is able but sometimes she gets mad at me , then I blame her for her behavior ,then she hates me ,in her emotion she mentions Hadith to defend herself, but I make the mistake , that I suspicious her with saying to her : ' The only reason you do and say this now is because you are such and such ( then I judge her ) ." Then the whole thing ends up in bickering and argumentation's . This happens almost every day ! I say to myself " Where am I going through, what is this ?" Oh Sheikh what am I doing wrong ? 3~ as-salam 'alaykum , my question is : " Here in the west most of us brothers are reverts , we come from a criminal back round as we grew up in the streets some of our mothers were working all day and some of our fathers we don't even know them. Our supervision were under strange women ,who watched us till our mothers came home. Likewise some of us had fathers who were married with our mothers but used to abuse them mentally as well as physically then we got abused . When we get married , we treat our wives harsh likewise our children , many of us know it is wrong but are very weak to fight this state where we are in. Most of us end towards divorces and constantly remarrying .Many of us think to marry sisters from Muslim countries would be the answer to our problem ,but often it is not . How can we change this state we are in , and please can you please give us a guideline . Thank you. 4~ AsSalaamu alaykum yaa Shaykh , Barak aallah feekum ! Among us brothers here in the US we sell fragrance oils on the market places , in the streets etc. sometimes kufar women pass by our stands and purchase after we let them smell the fragrance oils. The question is are we allowed to sell these women fragrance oils . And is not what is the least we are allowed to sell them? q/b) Most of the times these kufar women dress in a inappropriate manner and they speak to us , also they want to know about Islaam , some of us explain Islaam to them but the doors of Fitan opens . What is your advice concerning this ? 5~ Is hitting none-mahram children who are small or big permissible from a none-parent ? For example: Sometimes it happens that in an muslim gathering , be it on Lectures or other in Masajids etc. some Muslim children are not supervised by their parents, some of sisters or brothers take it upon themselves to treat these children harshly in correcting and hitting them . Is this act permissible ? 6~ May you please advice us concerning the Internet . Nowadays the Internet is used as a replacement in regards to the TV. And mostly it becomes a fitna .May you describe what can be used on the Internet and which of the educational programs may be used in teaching ones family ? 7~ Asalamualaikum , can you please tell us sisters from the west what to do , in cases when the husband doesn't work, and we are paying the bills while we go to work , then the husband gets comfortable and wants to join polygamy and our co wives end up in begging and getting welfare .Then the husbands live on each sisters income. ( Some of the brothers make excuses they are looking for jobs ,but hang around the streets and in Muslim stores to talk etc. )... Advice please.........Barak allah feek. 8~ Is it permissible to use anything pertaining the pig like boar brushes, etc. and what about medicine which contains pork ingredients as we heard that it might be a chemical change by the process of the manufacturing of the material or the medicine. Is this true? 9~ As- Salamu alaikum beloved shaikh Allah barak feek; We are asking for advice in regards to foods and drinks here in America, which contain* harmful ingredients* ,chemicals which are added to retain longer shelf life of these products which are stored for long term in market places.Also pesticides are used in agriculture. In processing these foods ( conventional foods )by adding preservatives in them ,these additives are also found in HALAL FOODS & DRINKS .However there are approved Organizations who work with western Scientific standards along with Doctors who make the public ( consumer ) aware of these *harmful ingredients* which cause many chronic illnesses and life threatening situations. Some of the illnesses such as ; Respiratory Problems,- cardiovascular Heart disease ,- cancer ,- allergies,- diabetes( some of the ingredients are : Aluminium, hydro genated oils, Mercury, MSG, testosterone-blocking chemicals/ anti-androgens in water supplies ,lead, formaldehyde , chlorine and much more ..) Many of us Muslims have already changed their diets due to their illnesses and otherwise from a large choice in buying quality & quantity ( These ingredients list can be found on the products labels ). in regards to foods and drinks ( organic whole foods ) which contain no chemicals but their prices are higher then the conventional foods. May Allah enlighten you what shall we do ..? Jazak Allahu Khair. 10~ The question is:" Is it recommended to buy a better food quality ?" 11~ Is one sinful in purchasing foods which are higher in price ? 12~ Assalaamu alaikum Oh Shaikh may Allaah grant you good! Here in America we have a program for our children called ' Homeshool Program " The state allows us to home school our children with a specific curriculum, some of the Lessons involve; Art( of the west human animal pictures ),- Science( Science of the west ) ,- History( of the west ) Music,- Language Arts/English,- Math... The state allows us to leave off some of the subject matters due to religious grounds. The problem arises ,when certain Muslims, don not leave subject matters due to religious grounds. Accepting the very same thing ,which is secular education . Some of our Muslims say :" You need this education to come in a Muslim country,"- " I need to study in this University, to get my degree ,even though I know it's wrong to intermingle between opposite sex,"- " I fell into desires due to the fitan of mixing with women , all what I need is to make Tawbah ,"- " We need to be better then the kufars in technique ,I need to sacrifice even if it involves haram in regards to my studies in the Uni.".... What is your advice concerning our Muslims , Baraka Allaahu feek! 13~ Many of us Families are living in a neighborhood which are under drug infested circumstances. The popularity in those neighborhoods are criminals who sell drugs openly and are our neighbors with any type of crimes. Some of them steel and break into houses. Sometimes they beg for money .1- The question is : "Are they considered neighbors, even if they are harmful?" 2- And in terms of their harming how do we deal with them ?" 14~Is a harmful evil neighbor to be assisted if he needs help ? 15~ As salaamu aleikum ohh Sheikh , in the US, some of the traveling guests who are invited harm the hosts and their families, in transgressing the hosts & families rights , travelers stay more then 3 days and decide when they want to leave , going through the host's house and taking things into their position and ordering the host around his home till he exhausts. Disturbing the private time of the host & family . Abusing the host's children with statements and actions. Insulting other guests who are invited . When the traveling guest is being advised on this affair, he remarks with arrogant manners.That he didn't do anything wrong to offend somebody. After many times of advising he still behaves in this manners .a- Do we have the right to not let those in who harm the host and his family ? b- Would it be considered a sin to avoid him due to his burden ? C- And may you please advice those travelers and us being hosts how to avoid those harms ?
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UmAsiyaTurk Al-Kyrgyzstan Saaliha bint Isma'il
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Bismillahir Rahmaanir Rahiim assalaamu'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu Alhamdulillahi some more questions were able to be gathered from the brothers and sisters Bi'idhnillah: 1. Can a Muslim invent a video clip with faceless imiges by adding voices to them ( making stories of the sahabah etc. ) in regards to teach our Muslim children ? 2. Are Muslim children allowed to watch Muslim cartoons , when there is no one to teach ones children ? 3. Are small Muslim children be left alone, playing in none-muslim neighborhoods? 4. Are Muslim children allowed to play in a playground with kufar children ? 5. AS salaamu alaikum shaikh may you please advice us due to this matter barak allah feek ; Some of us Muslims have still pre-islamic ignorance in manners and speaking our language . It is hard to leave this off! How can we stop this ??? 6. Does companion ship between children influence their upbringing as muslims? 7. Is it considered a sin to make ones home a comfortable place in beautifying it ,for ones husband ? and is this considered craving for this life ? 8. My sister is constantly complaining about her husband's condition , that he doesn't take care of himself, he smells and he has body odor , if she wants to help him out he just easily says that he is all right she shouldn't worry about him , he is OK like that.. this goes on my nerves as she complains alot,and I told her that .What can she do as she doesn't like her husband ,even though he is not bad in his deen, and what should I tell her ? 9. salamalaikum my wife wants to have a kula due to my weight .I am a good brother this is what my companions say about me. She doesn't like my eating habits .She says if I don't stop ,I remind her of the people of the fire and also she says like yajuj and majuj. I tried to loose weight but it doesn't work. I am so used to eat just junk food. Should I grant her the kula as she avoids me ? 10. What is the ruling upon the muslims who sew each other in kufar courts. Upon custody of their children . Some muslims are treated unfair due to high payments they have to submit by a due date given by the judge. If they don't bring the money in court they will be in jail. Please explain how this should be dealed with . Thank you. 11. Is it permissible for a marriage couple when applying for a welfare program , to conceal some of the privacy of the household to gain benefits ? 12. Is this following the kufars ,desireing their ways , as it seems that they are happy in some ways? 13. How can we make hijjrah today ? and where is the best place to go to be safe ? --
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