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as salaamu alaykum, I would like to know the procedure for a khula? and if the woman is granted a khula by the judge after presenting her case does the husband have to agree to it to make it valid? also what is permissible for the woman to spend the child support upo?. If the mother and child both need something can she spend upon both of them? If in dire need can she pay rent? or use the money for other things that benefit both the child and mother?    as salaamu alaykum